I just noticed I haven't set myself any new year's resolutions for the past 2 years. I did write a post about it in 2014 but didn't accomplish that much since i had my laparoscopywent through IVF and finally got pregnant. 2015 marked the arrival of our little girl, we went on trips to Finland, Innsbruck, Dresden and London AND we moved to California. Last year was super hard, we had to adapt to living here, make new friends, start a new life all by ourselves, while feeling alone and scared and not being in so good health... But we managed all that and more, we are in a very good place right now and i feel confident enough in my role as a mom and a wife, to finally focus again on myself. This year is MY year, which of course doesn't mean that i'm going to neglect my family, it just means that i need to get back to do things for myself, things that make me happy (or not...)

This is the year of Self Growth!

  • Getting my driver's license: I'm probably the only person i know who doesn't know how to drive... I took my written test in december (and passed!), so i now have a permit and Raul has been teaching me, but it's a slow process. I just get way too anxious! I drive 15 mph and feel like i'm doing 30... it's just very scary for me. I'm not very good at focusing on stuff for prolonged periods of time... it just makes me very nervous. But i HAVE to learn, specially if we end up staying here longer than planned (no, nothing is sure just yet... ask me again in the sommer!), i really need to be able to go to appointments by my own, or get Moomin to Kindergarten and just in general be a little bit more independent. 
  • Improve my kick-assery: Of course i mean getting better at Martial Arts! I really hope i stick with it for as long as we're here. It is sooo much fun and i'm getting better at it too. I noticed i'm not that afraid anymore of contact and getting hit. Just yesterday i was punched in the eye! 
  • Learn Calligraphy: This is a fun, exciting one! I just really want to learn something new, something that it's just for me. It's nice taking some time to do something that has no other purpose than to make me happy. 
  • Learn about nutrition: as Baby Moomin gets older i want her to make better choices and this includes being healthier. I want to learn about nutrition and healthier eating, so i can pass on that infirmation. I want her to be stronger, to take better care of our environment and just in general to be more informed, you know. I think it's time to start making changes if we want our planet to survive.


That's it, those are the things i want to work on this year. Learning new things, moving forward... It is very probable that next year is going to be stressful again (wether we move back, or not), so this one is the perfect opportunity to grow, to get stronger and learn to tackle everything that comes our way with a more positive attitude.

What are your resolutions? I wish you all a good week! Remember that improving oneself is a constant, never-ending process! 



Feelings and emotions and life and stuff...

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I have been writing this post in my head for the last couple of weeks, without ever actually sitting down and doing it... I knew that being a mom was going to be hard, there is never enough time for things not involving Baby Moomin and/or Lola, but honestly, i have been taking time for myself every afternoon while the baby sleeps. My problem has been more a motivational one. I'm just always so tired and overwhelmed by life with a toddler, that whenever i get a small pause, my brain automatically shuts down. It has been so difficult for me to channel my creativity and actually do something with it. But here i am, finally!

The year is almost over and this place looks exactly the same, although our lives have changed so much. Baby Moomin is already a little bit over one and a half years old! I cannot begin to comprehend how/when that happened! It feels like only yesterday i held this tiny worm in my arms, who couldn't do anything but cry when hungry... She is sooo big now! She knows how to open doors, turn on lights and climb on the couch. She is still not very good with words, most of them sound the same to me, but she knows her body parts and some animals in german AND spanish. She understands us perfectly and even helps around the house. She loves music, specially Mr. Cooper and right now is obsessed with Curious George. Just a couple more months and she'll be 2 years old!!! She'll be flower girl at the wedding of one of my best friends <3 It's time to think about Pre School!

I have been going to Martial Arts Training since July and recently earned my Orange Belt! It has been so satisfying to a)leave the house for an hour without Moomin and/or Lola, b) meeting new people and c) finally doing something that brings me out of my comfort zone, while working out! I have really been enjoying it so much. It started as just looking what it was about and how i would feel doing something like that, but it has given me so much more confidence, plus i have muscles in places where i never had muscles before! hahaha, no, really, i think never in my life have i had upper back/shoulder muscles like this. They are still not super defined, but they are there! And let's not forget that i'm learning how to defend myself, a set of skills that everybody should know. I'm still not a pro, i'm just beginning my journey, but i'm very glad i started it :-D

Another change we're making, is being more conscious about what we eat, what we wear, what we use. We are nor vegan, i honestly don't think the Hubs and i will ever be completely vegan, we do like a steak once in a while, but we are giving up/replacing some products we no longer want to consume, like milk and eggs. Specially with Baby Moomin being this young, i want her to grow up with other notions and correct information. We're also transitioning to cruelty free products and just in general a more earth friendly way of life. This is a journey we also just started, but in my opinion it's already paying off. I do want to write a more detailed post about this, because it's becoming such an important part of our lives, let's hope it doesn't take me another year ;-)

The Hubs and Lola are good. The hubs has been busy with work and he has been sick a few times this year, but nothing major, just the flu. Lola has been good too, but we really need to find her something to do, like dog school or agility. I also need to work with her a little bit more. I find myself not having much more patience or time for her and i do think she feels/resents it. Don't get me wrong, she's not being neglected, but she's not the only baby around anymore! It would be perfect if Moomin and Lola would play together, but right now, that's not happening. Lola does not really like the baby (Moomin adores her Lola <3), she does not bite her or anything like that, but she does not like Moomin to come near her, or play with her :-/ I still have high hopes that one day they will become best friends!

Ok, this has been a very long post about our lives right now. I could tell you so much more stuff, but i think it's enough for now. There are still pictures from our family road trip waiting to be edited and uploaded. It's just one more week 'till Christmas and my parents are coming for the Holidays! The Hubs and i have our 5th (already?)wedding anniversary today! We'll be going to watch some Christams lights tomorrow! It's still going to take me a while to catch up on all of this, but i promise i will! In the meantime remember to follow us on Instagram and/or like our page on Facebook!

We wish you all a very happy weekend!



What happened so far... part 3

Posted by beritas

This is the last batch of pictures of our august and september adventures and then we'll be almost up to date! yei!!!

One of my best friends invited me to Las Vegas for the weekend and it was so weird traveling without the Hubs and Baby Moomin. I think i haven't traveled alone since i met my husband almost 9 years ago! We always go everywhere together, but i really needed some time for myself. I've never been in Vegas before and there is really not much to do if you don't like gambling, but "hotel watching" is fun and we spent almost all morning at the pool anyway. It was a very good weekend :-)

Vegas Strip Vegas Strip Paris LV

Bellagio Bellagio Bellagio Paris LV The Venetian The Venetian

Wynn LV Wynn LV

Wynn LV Wynn LV Treasure Island The Mirage

On Labor Day Weekend we decided to take our 2 little monsters to Humboldt County. As always Baby Moomin didn't want to spend time on the beach *sigh*... at least Lola had fun. We went to see the Redwoods and they are amazing! They are sooo tall! They would creak and groan so loud when the wind blew! It was  impressive but scary. We also visited Eureka, which was cute, but a little bit lonely, maybe everyone was somewhere else on that particular day? On our way back, we drove through the Avenue of the Giants. It was a nice getaway, although it took us about 10 hours to get back home :-/

Shasta Lake Lola at the beach Big Lagoon Viewpoint Prairie Creek Redwoods State Park

with Lola Dada and Baby Moomin

Prairie Creek Redwoods State Park Prairie Creek Redwoods State Park Prairie Creek Redwoods State Park Eureka, Humboldt County Eureka, Humboldt County Eureka, Humboldt County

Avenue of the giants Avenue of the giants

Anyway, my in-laws where here for a while and we took a 2 week roadtrip to so many places! If you follow me on Instagram you might have already seen some pictures, but i'll be working on showing you even more pictures over here too. But, you know me, it might take a while...

Today is Halloween!!! Last year we didn't do anything because we had just moved here and we didn't know anybody. Later today we're meeting some friends from our library playtime to go trick or treat with the little ones, but don't expect much for Moomin's costume... i don't even have one, i just thought of something we could do and i hope it works. And let's hope it doesn't rain!

Happy Halloween!!! Have some fun and please don't be a creepy clown!



What happened so far... part 2

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This summer was... perfect! Of course we had very very hot days, were would spend almost the whole day indoors... but it was so much fun! We spent los of time in the pool, going to nearby lakes and the beach. We scheduled weekly swimming "lessons"... it was more like: meeting at our place to get the babies in the pool (and ourselves, of course). Here are some of the things we did on weekends:

We wento to the California State Fair. Baby Moomin had a great time at the petting zoo and wathing all the cows :-D

With my Moomin California State Fair California State Fair California State Fair

We went to the Union Valley Reservoir with some of Raul's work colleagues.

Union Valley Reservoir with Dada at Union Valley Reservoir

We spent my birthday at Limantour Beach in Point Reyes and Bodega Bay (the town in which The Birds takes place! :-D)

Moomin at Point Reyes Lola and Dada at Point Reyestrying to put her shades on Ending a perfect day at Bodega Bay

On the weekends we stayed home, we tried to enjoy the pool and the backyard as much as possible. Most of the time it was just us, but we also had some friends over once in a while :-) We have to to this more often next summer! These two babies are the best of friends! Really, i think she is the only girl Baby Moomin lets near herself and her toys hahaha

Little friends

Swimming Moomin Swimming Moomin Little swimming friends

My in-laws are arriving next wednesday! And we're going on a 2 week roadtrip on the 9th! We have sooo much to take care of before we go: first aid kit, food for the road, clothes for 2 weeks for different kinds of weather, take Lola to the groomers... while also trying to get this house cleaned and ready for our family's arrival... Wish us luck!

Enjoy your friday and the weekend!!! 



What happened so far... part 1

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It's been way too long since my last post. Lots has happened since. Sometimes there is just not enough time to sort things in your head and write them down and now, there is just so much material, that i have no idea where to start. So, i think i'll just start where we left off...

Last time i wrote, my sister in law and her boyfriend were visiting us. We went to pick them up in San Francisco, stayed the weekend there and checked out Sausalito on our way back home:

Golden Gate Painted Ladies

Dragon's Gate  View from Coit Tower Lazy Seals Pier 39  Sausalito Bay Coffee break

Back in Sacramento we visited the Capitol, Oldtown, Downtown, Sutter's Fort and the Crocker Art Museum. Bonus point: now i know how to get to those places with public transportation! Weeeeeeeeee!

California State Capitol Museum Inside the Capitol

Governor's Mansion State Historic Park Sacramento City Hall Downtown

Sutter's Fort Sutter's Fort Outside Sutter's Fort Chillen at home

The next weekend we drove to Yosemite! I'm not a huge hiking fan, it just has never been my thing... however i managed to rock our 6 hour hike! Of course i was the only one who did not carry Baby Moomin (hey! it's either her or me and nobody is going to carry me...). For next time though, we're going to get a better baby carrier, you know, the ones with more space for her to move. She did great though!

Yosemite Valley Yosemite Valley Vernal Fall Vernal Fall Nevada Fall Family

Vernal Fall View from Glacier Point Taft Point

After Yosemite we drove those 2 lovebirds to Fresno, where they rented a car and took on an adventure of their own and we drove back home to Sacramento. But before, we killed some time by visiting the Forrestiere Underground Gardens:

Underground Gardens Underground Gardens

Underground Gardens Gardens

They went back to Europe at the end of July and we miss them sooo much! But we had a very good time! I have 2 more of this recollections posts (look forward to even more pictures). This saturday we are having a little Mexican Independence Day Party and my in laws are arriving at the beginning of october! 

Make sure to follow our adventures on Instagram! I'm much more active there... If you don't have instagram, i also share the pictures on Facebook! If you don't have FB, then... wait until the next post, i guess...? :-D I'm really working on posting at least once a week, at least until we're up to date again!

I wish you all a happy Thursday! It's almost Beer-Friday! yei!!!